Daydreaming Book Lover

Let’s Talk About Love Mini Review

  Let’s Talk About Love by Claire Kann is a classic coming of age rom-com story but with Asexual representation! This book has great representation into how it feels to be Asexual but still desire romantic relationships. This book includes cute fluffy romance, diverse characters, guys with golden retriever energy, complicated friendships, and young adult college drama! Since I’m also Ace, I had some feelings while reading this book! Here’s my thoughts on Let’s Talk About Love.
 
 

***

  Alice had her whole summer planned. Non-stop all-you-can-eat buffets while marathoning her favorite TV shows (best friends totally included) with the smallest dash of adulting–working at the library to pay her share of the rent. The only thing missing from her perfect plan? Her girlfriend (who ended things when Alice confessed she’s asexual). Alice is done with dating–no thank you, do not pass go, stick a fork in her, done.

  But then Alice meets Takumi and she can’t stop thinking about him or the rom com-grade romance feels she did not ask for (uncertainty, butterflies, and swoons, oh my!).

  When her blissful summer takes an unexpected turn, and Takumi becomes her knight with a shiny library employee badge (close enough), Alice has to decide if she’s willing to risk their friendship for a love that might not be reciprocated—or understood.

Mini-Review...

  • Alice was very relatable, with her sense of humor, her internal thoughts/dialogue, her enthusiasm for pop culture, and her struggles with trying to figure out how to adult.
  • This was the first time I ever read a romance where the main character is a Biromantic Asexual, and finally getting to read a romance with a heroine that’s Ace like me made me emotional.
  • I loved Alice’s “Cutie code” where she measures how cute everything is. I think that this was such a good way to describe aesthetic attraction and how Aces can notice how attractive a person is but not be attracted to them.
All Credit goes to Original Artist
  • Takumi was such a CINNAMON ROLL! He was such a kindhearted and genuine person, so many things he said and did were definitely swoon-worthy.  He had golden retriever energy and I love male love interests with that type of vibe.
  • Fennie and Ryan were definitely frustrating at times. But I think their complicated friendship made sense cause friendships do change as you get older. But I do like that this book shows that friends don’t always see eye to eye but that doesn’t mean they don’t care.
  • Trigger Warning for Aphobia/Amisia: What I didn’t think was okay was how Fennie wanted Alice to do a test by sleeping with Takumi and seeing if she feels differently about sex afterwards. Fennie said that she might be greysexual instead of asexual, but that just came off as her wanting Alice to be “fixed” by sleeping with someone she was romantically attracted to. WHICH IS NOT HOW ASEXUALITY WORKS!!! Alice’s character did show some frustration but I don’t think she called Fennie out for it. 
All Credit goes to Original Artist

Some Quotes that were Relatable for my Ace self...

I'm not trying to trivialize anyone else and what they have to do, but if I go to my parents and say I'm a lesbian, they would know what I meant. If I went to my siblings and said I'm bisexual, they would know what I meant. If I tell anyone I'm asexual, they're going to look at me like there's something wrong. They're going to tell me to go to a doctor. They're going to tell me I'm too young to know what I want or I'm still developing. Or they'll tell me how important sex is to finding a good man. Or they'll think they can fix me, that I'm lying because I don't want to sleep with them. It's hard enough trying to explain that word, so how in the hell am I going to explain I'm biromantic asexual? ― Claire Kann, Let's Talk About Love

My girlfriend broke up with me because she thought that since I didn't desire her, I wouldn't be able to love her, which is not true at all. I am very loving. I cry at the end of romcoms. My favorite movie is Splash. I want someone to give me flowers and take me on dates. I want to fall in love and wear a giant princess dress at my wedding. I want to have a happy ending, too, and all that other magical stuff. I want what books and TV and the world has promised me. It's not fair that should have to want sex to have it. ― Claire Kann, Let's Talk About Love

  Claire Kann is the author of several novels and an award-winning online storyteller. In her other life she works for a non-profit you may have heard of where she daydreams like she’s paid to do it. She loves cats and is obsessed with horror media (which makes the whole being known for writing contemporary love stories a little weird, tbh).

  She is represented by Carrie Pestritto of Laura Dail Literary Agency.

Check out Kann’s Author Website | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook

***

  So that was my simple mini-review of Kann’s novel, Let’s Talk About Love, along with some of my favorite quotes. If you have read this book, what were your thoughts? Let me know in the comments below!

Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.